Perkara-perkara sunat dilakukan pada hari Jumaat

Di antara perkara-perkara sunat yang boleh dilakukan pada hari Jumaat ialah.

1. Mandi sunat Jumaat dan memakai pakaian yang bersih dan cantik serta bau-bauan.

2. Sunat memakai pakaian yang berwarna putih. Keluar ke masjid dengan niat untuk menunaikan sembahyang Jumaat pada seawal waktunya secara berjalan kaki dengan penuh tenang dan sopan disamping membanyakkan membaca zikir, berselawat dan bertahmid kepada Allah.

3. Disunatkan bagi orang yang mengantuk ketika mendengar khutbah pada hari Jumaat supaya berpindah tempat duduknya. Berdasarkan riwayat dari Ibnu Umar katanya, "Aku mendengar Rasulullah s.a.w. bersabda, "Apabila salah seorang daripada kamu mengantuk pada hari Jumaat di dalam majlisnya maka hendaklah ia berpindah ke tempat duduk lain.

4. Sunat mengelokkan rupa parasnya dan membersihkan anggota tubuh badan sebelum keluar bersembahyang seperti memotong kuku, misai, mencabut bulu ketiak, mencukur bulu air-ari, menggosok gigi dan sebagainya.

5. Sunat membanyakkan membaca surah Al Kahfi pada malam Jumaat dan di waktu siangnya.

6. Sunat memperbanyakkan membaca doa dan memohon keampunan dari Allah pada malam dan waktu siangnya.

7. Memperbanyakkan membaca selawat ke atas Nabi s.a.w. pada malam hari dan di waktu siangnya.

8. Melakukan sembahyang sunat 4 rakaat sebelum Jumaat dan 4 lagi selepasnya.

9. Sunat membaca surah al Fatihah, al Ikhlas, al Falaq dan an Nas setiap satunya sebanyak 7x selepas memberi salam sembahyang Jumaat. Sabda Rasulullah s.a.w. "Sesiapa membaca surah Fatihah, al Ikhlas, al Falaq dan an Nas sebanyak 7 kali sebelum ia mengubah cara duduknya setelah imam selesai memberi salam pada hari Jumaat, nescaya akan diampuni dosa-dosanya yang telah dilakukan dan yang akan datang serta diberi ganjaran pahala sebanyak bilangan orang yang beriman kepada Allah dan RasulNya."

Wallahua'lam.

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Di Mana Kita Di Hadapan Tuhan?

Hari berganti hari, kita menyaksikan perkembangan teknologi yang semakin signifikan fungsinya dengan gaya hidup orang muda.

Mungkin zaman Friendster, My Space dan yang sewaktu dengannya telah tinggal menjadi kenangan yang dilupakan.

Namun, dengan perkembangan teknologi yang ada ini, sungguh wajarlah kita bertanya pada diri, di manakah kita hari ini di hadapan Tuhan yang Maha Esa?

Zaman Yang Mencabar Keimanan

Hidup di zaman teknologi ini mendekatkan kita dengan pelbagai sumber ilmu dan kebenaran, tetapi manusia semakin hilang sensitiviti di hadapan Tuhan.

Di zaman video tazkirah dan peringatan sangat banyak di laman sesawang, video maksiat dan dosa juga sangat mudah diakses. Di zaman peringatan sangat banyak di’share’ di dinding MukaBuku, tak kurang juga ramai yang mempromosi dosa di dinding yang sama. Laman sesawang yang menghubungkan manusia seumpama Facebook dan Twitter seakan-akan telah menjadi pasaran lambak untuk promosi diri secara murahan melalui gambar bercouple, gambar dan video murahan maruah wanita.

Bagaimanakah kita melalui semua ini?

Dengan akaun Facebook serta laman sesawang semua ini, siapakah kita di hadapan Tuhan pada hari ini?

Apakah taqwa kita semakin bertambah dengan membaca peringatan-peringatan yang banyak melata di dinding-dinding kehidupan maya ini?

Apakah semakin tertingkat prestasi ibadah dan ilmu kita dengan menatap dinding yang penuh informasi ini?

Sungguh, ini zaman yang mencabar keimanan.

Peringatan dan tazkirah populis banyak melata, tetapi seakan tiada mengesani jiwa.

Di manakah kita dengan tazkirah yang telah kita hadam sebentar tadi selepas kita keluar meninggalkan akaun FB dan laman sesawang kita yang lain? Apakah ia telah diterjemah ke dalam kehidupan?

Atau ia hanya akan semata-mata tinggal sebagai pesanan populis untuk ditatap oleh ramai orang?

Menggerakkkan Kesedaran Bermula Dari Diri Sendiri

“Sesungguhnya Allah tidak akan mengubah keadaan sesuatu kaum sehingga mereka mengubah apa yang ada pada diri mereka.” [Ar-Ra’d : 11]

Inilah esensi kepada perubahan masyarakat yang lebih besar. Untuk mengubah ummat, ia bermula dari mengubah apa yang ada pada diri kita sendiri.

Slogan perubahan, jangan hanya dilaungkan kuat di medan-medan status FB sahaja ataupun program-program dalaman kumpulan kita. Perubahan bukan slogan untuk dilaungkan, ia adalah tindakan untuk direalisasikan.

Kita tidak akan dapat mengubah nasib ummat ini sekiranya kita tidak bermula dengan mengubah kelalaian yang menjangkiti diri kita. Kelalaian menghabiskan masa berjam lamanya di depan laman sesawang dan FB hanya untuk melayan update status orang dan chatting akan perkara-perkara yang kurang penting. Kelalaian menghabiskan masa dengan banyak tidur dan kurang serius dalam memperbaiki prestasi ilmu dalam diri.

Semuanya bermula dengan diri sendiri.

Revolusi ummat menuju jalan islah dan jalan iman bukan dengan hanya memperbanyakkan peringatan populis di dinding-dinding FB atau di Twitter saja, tetapi dengan mula turun ke medan memperbaiki diri, membumikan teori ke medan realiti.

Manusia mungkin semakin terhubung sesama mereka dengan adanya laman sesawang seperti FB dan Twitter, namun semakin renggang dengan Tuhan melayan kesibukan urusan 24 jam dengan manusia.

Penutup : Menjejak Semula Iman

Dunia semakin berkembang, namun jangan iman kita semakin mengecut. Di kala dunia mengalami perkembangannya, janganlah kita hanyut dibawa arusnya.

Benar, iman ada turun naiknya, tetapi ketika turun, janganlah merosot terus sehingga. Biarlah dikawal turun naik itu agar tetap dalam ketaatan kepada Allah.

Mari jejak semula iman kita.

Imanlah yang akan menyelamatkan kita di hadapan Allah.

Iman membuahkan sensitiviti dalam hati. Sensitiviti untuk menjaga hak bermasyarakat. Sensitiviti untuk memelihara maruah diri sendiri.

Semoga di zaman fitnah, ketika ramai yang terikut-ikut melondehkan maruah diri sendiri mengikuti trend perkembangan teknologi yang ada, kita tidak terikut-ikut menjadi mangsa fitnah juga.

Selamatkan imanmu !

copypasta: http://langitilahi.com/14401

KAEDAH WARDINA SAFIYYAH DIDIK ANAK SOLAT 5 WAKTU

Dear Mama, Ummi, Mum, Ibu, Bonda…

I have to share this with you… because i feel so happy and i feel that all my penat lelah paid off…I started to make my Amna to solat 5 times a day when she was 7, on her 7th birthday…we had a talk…(check note lama) tapi preparation since 6 la…

tapi dari kecik memang selalu ikut2 la kami solat….she hasnt missed her solat since. Walaupun lambat, tetap solat. I made sure of that – because the key is SOLAT ni kalau tak tanam dari kecik memang LIAT nanti….But it is very important to keep this in mind:-

1) kalau kita bagi dia tinggal WALAUPUN sekali nanti we are sending the wrong signal – kena make sure – every waktu without fail, walaupun penat, ataupun lambat

2) l Selalu kalau boleh solat together..mula2 memang kena solat together….kalau tak ada rumah make sure an adult in the house pastikan anak kita solat. (hari tu Amna pergi her reading class, i asked her teacher to take her to the surau) -lepas solat time tu lah peluk cium, senyum – i always kiss her at the head and say “Barakallahufiha” Ya Allah make my Amna a good Muslim Ya Allah….make her never miss her solat Ya Allah…..kuat2 bagi dia dengar….

ps:- kalau kena amik cuti ambillah – bukan waktu exam je amik cuti – buatlah STEP ini, yakni melangkah ke alam 7 thaun dan tidak meninggalkan solat A BIG Thing! “mama amik cuti hari ni sebab nak pastikan yang adik solat 5 waktu sehari!”

3) Selalu cerita how IMPORATANT it is to solat..how Allah is watching us… how we are good Muslims when we solat, how Allah loves us, Solat tu, untuk kita, bukan untuk Allah…..TAPI selalu jugak cerita yang akan ada orang TAK solat…acknowledge the fact that sometimes we feel lazy to solat….itu semua kerja SETAN! Fight them off….! I tell Amna that even some grown ups tak solat! I tell Amna that….we have to be strong.. we have to tell ourselves we will NEVER miss our solat…..

4) Awal2 subuh ni memang tak bangunkan, tapi as soon as dia bangun pagi, ill ask her to solat straight away.(yes memang leceh..but we have to, and we have to do it with LOVE diselang seli dgn strictness)

5) kalau dia tinggal – DENGAN sengaja, i take the rotan and hit her on her tapak tangan slowly, just as a reminder. After that i hug her and tell her i love her, and i just want her to remember – and guess what?? memang dia ingat!!! (3 kali baru, i think not bad, sampai satu hari dia terlambat solat, sebab keluar dan memang tak ingat, dia yang suruh rotan) But i tell her kalau TERLUPA atau TERTIDUR its ok…but kena solat terus bila bangun.

Macam ni ceritanya, i told Amna, kalau Ummi ambik Amna dari sekolah lambat, Amna solat dulu Asar kat sekolah….tadi memang datang lambat…i was loking for her..and guess what????
She was actually praying her Asar prayers…sorang je kat dalam surau tu….i wanted to pengsan and cry…she did all by herself…. i pun told her how happy and how proud i was of her…i tanya dia kenapa? dia kata “Amna ingat apa Ummi cakap”…..cair nya hatiku ini.

Apa lagi, Ummi ni peluk cium dia….and called nenek at Australia…now im sharing with all of you!!! Because i want us to raise generation of good Muslims that are disciplined, smart, intelligent -that remembers Allah because the world so BADLY needs good QUALITY Muslims like this!!!

And the foundation is – to start them off right – solat at SEVEN! Yes just as how Rasulullah asked us!I love you all!!! Good night….. But the key to all this IS Mak Ayah KENA dan WAJIB solat dulu…anak ketam tak boleh diajar berjalan terus…fahamkan?

Ten ways to avoid marrying the wrong person

This is long.. but worth a read.. and a wonderful resource for working out what questions to ask at a level that really helps you know the person you are marrying.. I think the real question to ask is..
Would you want to be married to this man or this woman for all eternity because as Sh Waleed Basyouni points out in his lecture on Marriage in Islam.. this is the reality. .. and why intellectural commitment is the most important level of commitment in marriage.

There is a right way and a wrong way to get to know someone for marriage. The wrong way is to get caught up in the excitement and nuance of a budding relationship and in the process completely forget to ask the critical questions that help determine compatibility. One of the biggest mistakes that many young Muslims make is rushing into marriage without properly and thoroughly getting to know someone.

A common myth is that the duration of a courtship is an accurate enough measure of how compatible two people are. The logic follows that the longer you speak with someone, the better you will know them. The problem with that premise is that no consideration is given to how that time is spent.

Increasingly, young Muslim couples are engaging in “halal dating,” which is basically socializing with each other in the company of friends and/or family. This includes going out to dinner, watching a movie, playing some sport or other leisure activity, etc. Depending on the family or culture, conversations are either minimal & chaperoned or worse, unrestricted and unsupervised. When you consider these limitations it makes one wonder when exactly, if ever at all, would the critical conversations take place? Unfortunately, for many, the answer is never and they live to suffer the consequences. If you or someone you know is in the “getting to know someone” phase, the following guide offers advice on exactly what to look for and avoid:

1) Do Not Marry Potential:
Oftentimes men consider marrying a woman hoping she never changes while a woman considers marrying a man she hopes she can change. This is the wrong approach on both accounts. Don’t assume that you can change a person after you’re married to them or that they will reach their potential. There is no guarantee, after all, that those changes will be for the better. In fact, it’s often for the worse. If you can’t accept someone or imagine living with them as they are then don’t marry them. These differences can include a number of things such as ideological or practical differences in religion, habits, hygiene, communication skills, etc.

2) Choose Character over Chemistry:
While chemistry and attraction are no doubt important, character precedes them both. A famous quote follows, “Chemistry ignites the fire, but character keeps it burning.” The idea of falling “in love” should never be the sole reason for marrying someone; it is very easy to confuse infatuation and lust for love. The most important character traits to look for include humility, kindness, responsibility, & happiness. Here’s a breakdown of each trait:

1. Humility:
The humble person never makes demands of people but rather always does right by them. They put their values and principles above convenience and comfort. They are slow to anger, are modest, and avoid materialism.

2. Kindness:
The kind person is the quintessential giver. They seek to please and minimize the pain of others. To know if a person is a giver, observe how they treat their family, siblings, and parents. Do they have gratitude towards their parents for all that they’ve done for them? If not, then know that they will never appreciate what you do for them. How do they treat people they don’t have to be kind towards (i.e. waiters, sales associates, employees, etc)? How do they spend their money? How do they deal with anger; their own anger and their reaction to someone else’s anger?

3. Responsibility:
A responsible person has stability in their finances, relationships, job, and character. You can you rely on this person and trust what they say.

4. Happiness:
A happy person is content with their portion in life. They feel good about themselves and good about their life. They focus on what they have rather than on what they don’t have. They very rarely complain.

3) Do Not Neglect The Emotional Needs of Your Partner:
Both men and women have emotional needs and in order for a partnership to be successful those needs must be mutually met. The fundamental emotional need of a woman is to be loved. The fundamental emotional need of a man is to be respected and appreciated.

To make a woman feel loved give her the three AAAs: Attention, Affection, & Appreciation. To make a man feel loved give him the three RRRs: Respect, Reassurance, & Relief. It is the obligation of each partner to make sure the other is happy and this extends to intimacy as well. As long as each partner is fulfilled by the emotional needs of the other, the intimate relationship will thrive. When a man takes seriously the emotional needs of his wife she will feel more encouraged to fulfill his sexual desires. Likewise, when a woman takes seriously the emotional needs of her husband he will feel more encouraged to give her the affection, love and appreciation she wants from him. Working together in this way encourages both giving and receiving.

4) Avoid Opposing Life Plans:
In marriage you can either grow together or grow apart. Sharing a common purpose in life will increase the chance that you will grow together.

You must know what the person is into. In other words, what are they ultimately passionate about? Then ask yourself, “Do I respect this passion?” “Do I respect what they are into?”
The more specifically you define yourself, i.e., your values, your beliefs, your lifestyle, the better chance you have of finding your life partner, your soul mate, the one you are most compatible with.
Remember, before you decide who to take along on a trip, you should first figure out your destination.

5) Avoid Pre-Marital Sexual/Physical Activity:
Recognize that there is incredible wisdom in why Allah has ordered us to refrain from intimacy before marriage; they are to prevent great harms as well as to keep sacred what is the most blessed part of a relationship between a man and a woman.

Aside from the obvious spiritual consequences, when a relationship gets physical before its time, important issues like character, life philosophy, and compatibility go to the wayside. Consequently, everything is romanticized and it becomes difficult to even remember the important issues let alone talk about them.
Intellectual commitment must be established before emotional or sexual commitment.

6) Avoid Lack of Emotional Connection:
There are a number of questions that you must answer YES to:

1, Do I respect and admire this person?
2. What specifically do I respect and admire about this person?
3. Do I trust this person?
4. Can I rely on them? Do I trust their judgment? Do I trust their word? Can I believe what they say?
5. Do I feel Safe? Do I feel emotionally safe with this person? Can I be vulnerable? Can I be myself? Can I be open? Can I express myself?
6. Do I feel calm and at peace with this person?

If the answer is “I don’t know, I’m not sure, etc.” keep evaluating until you know for sure and truly understand how you feel. If you don’t feel safe now, you won’t feel safe when you are married. If you don’t trust now, this won’t change when you are married!

7) Pay Attention to Your Own Emotional Anxiety:
Choosing someone you don’t feel safe with emotionally is not a good recipe for a long-lasting and loving marriage. Feeling emotionally safe is the foundation of a strong and healthy marriage. When you don’t feel safe, you can’t express your feelings and opinions. Learn how to identify whether you are in an abusive relationship. If you feel you always have to monitor what you say, if you are with someone and you feel you can’t really express yourself and are always walking on eggshells, then it’s very likely you are in an abusive relationship. Look for the following things:

1. Controlling behavior:
This includes controlling the way you act, the way you think, the way you dress, the way you wear your hair/hijab and the way you spend your time. Know the difference between suggestions and demands. Demands are an expression of control and if the demands are implied, than you must do it or there will be consequences. All of these are clear indications of abusive personalities.

2. Anger issues:
This is someone who raises their voice on a regular basis, who is angry, gets angry at you, uses anger against you, uses put downs, and curses at you, etc. You don’t have to put up with this type of treatment. Many people who tolerate this behavior usually come from abusive backgrounds. If this is the case with you or someone you know, get help right away. Deal with those issues before getting married or before even thinking about getting married.

8) Beware of Lack of Openness In Your Partner:
Many couples make the mistake of not putting everything on the table for discussion from the onset. Ask yourself, “What do I need to know to be absolutely certain I want to marry this person?” “What bothers me about this person or the relationship?” It’s very important to identify what’s bothering you, things that concern you, and things you are afraid to bring up for discussion. Then you must have an honest discussion about them.

This is a great way to test the strength of your relationship. Bringing up issues when there’s conflict is a great opportunity to really evaluate how well you communicate, negotiate, and work together as a team. When people get into power struggles and blame each other, it’s an indication they don’t work well as a team. Also important is being vulnerable around each other. Ask deep questions of each other and see how your partner responds. How do they handle it? Are they defensive? Do they attack? Do they withdraw? Do they get annoyed? Do they blame you? Do they ignore it? Do they hide or rationalize it? Don’t just listen to what they say but watch for how they say it!

9) Beware of Avoiding Personal Responsibility:
It’s very important to remember no one else is responsible for your happiness. Many people make the mistake of thinking someone else will fulfill them and make their life better and that’s their reason for getting married. People fail to realize that if they are unhappy as a single person, they will continue to be miserable when they are married.

If you are currently not happy with yourself, don’t like yourself, don’t like the direction your life is going now, it’s important to take responsibility for that now and work on improving those areas of your life before considering marriage. Don’t bring these issues into your marriage and hope your partner will fix them.

10) Watch Out For Lack of Emotional Health and Availability In Your Potential Partner:
Many people choose partners that are not emotionally healthy or available. One huge problem is when a partner is unable to balance the emotional ties to family members, the marriage ends up having 3 (or more) people in it rather than two. An example of this would be if a man is overly dependent on his mother and brings that relationship into the marriage; this is no doubt a recipe for disaster. Also important to consider are the following:

1. Avoid people who are emotionally empty inside.
These include people who don’t like themselves because they lack the ability to be emotionally available. They are always preoccupied with their deficiencies, insecurities, and negative thoughts. They are in a perpetual fight with depression, never feel good, are isolated, are critical and judgmental; tend to not have any close friends, and often distrust people or are afraid of them. Another clear indication about them is they always feel their needs are not getting met; they have a sense of entitlement and feel angry when they feel people should take care of them and they don’t. They feel burdened by other people’s needs and feel resentment towards them. These people can not be emotionally available to build healthy relationships.

2. Addictions
can also limit the level of availability of the partner to build a strong emotional relationship. Never marry an addict. Addictions are not limited to drugs and alcohol. They can be about addictions and dependency on work, internet, hobbies, sports, shopping, money, power, status, materialism, etc. When someone has an addiction, they will not and can not be emotionally available to develop an intimate relationship with you!

Additional Points to Consider:
The fact is no one looks 25 forever. Ultimately, we love the person we marry for more than their appearance. When we get to know someone we love and admire, we’ll love them for their inner beauty and overall essence.

Once we find someone, we consciously or subconsciously want so badly for it all to work that we decide not to question or see what is clearly in front of our eyes: they were rude to the waiter, speaks ill of others, is rude to you, etc. We don’t stop to ask, “What does all of this mean about their character?”

Never separate someone from their family, background, education, belief system, etc. Asking clear questions can clarify this. Ask questions like, “What does it mean to have a simple lifestyle?” “What are your expectations of marriage?” “How would you help around the house?” Compare your definition with theirs.

Be flexible. Be open-minded!
Giving in a happy marriage should not be confused with martyrdom. It should be about taking pleasure and seeing the other person as happy because of your connection with them.

Morality and spirituality are the qualities that truly define someone in addition to beauty, money, and health. The morally upright and spiritual person will stand by your side during adversity and hardship. If someone isn’t God-conscience and doesn’t take themselves into account with God then why should you expect them to fulfill their rights owed to you?

The ideal partner is someone who considers giving a gain and not causing a loss. Having a mutual and shared spiritual relationship will foster a successful marriage. Furthermore, a successful marriage is one that keeps the laws of family purity which require a certain degree of self-control and self-discipline, as well as the belief that the physical side of the relationship includes the spiritual and emotional side as well. Finding commonality and balance between the spiritual and emotional aspects of a relationship is a strong key to a healthy and thriving marriage

Semua orang mengharapkan segalanya indah-indah BUKAN? 

Bukan semudah itu untuk mendapat seperti apa yang hajati...

Berusahalah yang termampu untuk merubah diri sendiri terlebih dahulu dan serahkan segalanya 

kepada yang Esa. 

Janji Allah itu PASTI..!!!

http://islamic-kn.blogspot.ae/2013/09/ten-ways-to-avoid-marrying-wrong-person.html

jogging_chef_sg.pahang_istana_kuala.pahang

Alkisah nak berjumpa SV untuk projek fyp. Malang yang tak berbau. SV sibuk time cuti midsem tu..Tula salah kami jugak bagi taw lewat nak wat appoiment hari apa..Last2 merempat la kami kat ump pekan ni..Agak sunyi sebab ramai yang balik. Nasib baik kafe buka jugak, tak la rasa terpinggir sangat. Sedih jugak sebenarnya.Ye la tahun depan pulak la boleh balik rumah jumpa famili..huhu..Boleh je nak balik sebenarnya tapi lambat la dengan nak mencari tiket lagi..hmm..Jawabnya dok bertapa kat hostel je la..

Takpe la.tahun depan insyaAllah grad. so bagi chance la kami jaga ump ni..

muvie..muvie..muvie...hehehe...

Tapi best jugak sebenarnya. dapat hangout dengan kawan2 yang senasib dengan ku..Banyak aktiviti dilakukan bersama2..
Dengan berjogging, memasak 'ala-ala wastern' la kononnya, melepak2 sambil bergambar di tepi sungai pahang, merayap2 di kawasan istana, sampai sesat wooo...awesome sungguh...!!!

trek jogging kami...seronoknya lagi2 time cuti memang lengang la..larikk sampai penat...berjogging sambil ambil angin petang..memang best...dapat hilangkan stress..

mempelam+epal...sedap2..

kalau cicah sambal belacan ka kuah rojak ka mmg menjilat jari kot..~~

menunggu makanan yg diorder..kafe mak cik oren..hihihi..nyum3

time ni memang keja kami mencari kerja jak...

megi kari+megi ayam = megi kari ayam...plus telur sebutir..kih3

memang xjumpa la gamaknya kalau cari kat kedai..kedai kak bedah pon xdak oiii...

4orang manusia berjalan-jalan di pekan..

lepak sebentar di sungai pahang sambil menikmati cendol pak hameed..

nyummy..delicious...

kaki yang suka berjalan kalau dibawak berjalan...

luaskan pandangan kata orang ^^

kami-kami, binti-binti merehatkan diri dan minda sambil ambil angin petang di hadapan sungai yang sangat tenang airnya..sambil bersantap..

misi mencari istana..hehe..sesat jugak la..

suasana agak berbeza disitu..kami jumpa kuda weh...heee

steamboat keluaran farah...tadaa...!!!

kuah made by farah jugak..sos plus kicap..hehehe..

xkisahlah..asal boleh makan..sedappp ^^

plus air blackcurrent...

tolongggg...!!! saya terperangkap kat atas ni..takut nak turun..nanti kalau turun kena marah..

saya takut tinggi...hehe..

tu la panjat lagi tinggi2 cik cing

jadi wayang free ja..lama jugak la kami tonton..xtaw nak bawak turun macamna..

akhirnya turun gak...meja farah menjadi tangganya..

peacee....

Harapan Seorang Istri Kepada Suami

Suamiku….
Kuingin agar setiap perjumpaanku denganmu menjadi sebuah perjumpaan manis,..
Hiasi selalu dengan senyuman tulusmu karena senyummu adalah
bahagiaku..
Do'amu adalah sebuah keridhoan bagiku.

Suamiku…
Bertuturkatalah yang lembut padaku ketika kau hendak sampaikan sesuatu agarku mudah mencerna apa
maksudmu..
Perhatikanku pula ketika ku ingin berbagi denganmu..
Mendengarkan ucapan atau ceritaku. Karena bagiku itu adalah sebuah penghargaan..

Suamiku…
kuinginkan sebuah panggilan kesayangan tuk jadikan sebuah kemesraan dalam hubungan..

Suamiku…
Kuingin kau lebih sebagai seorang sahabat yang berikan
waktu untukku.. Jangan terlalu
sibuk dengan segala urusanmu,..
Sediakan waktu untuk bercengkrama bersama denganku walau hanya
sekedar tuk ingatkan tentang
kenangan indah bersamamu..

Suamiku …
Jadikan bermusyawarah sebagai jalan dalam memecahkan persoalan keluarga..
Dengan adanya 2 orang akan lebih mudah ditemukan sebuah jalan
keluar..

Suamiku …
Bantu aku dalam ketaatan kepada Allah.
Biasakanlah Bangunkan ku di sepertiga malam terakhir dan ajak ku
menegakkan shalat Qiyamullail..

Suamiku ….
Ajari ku apa yang kau ketahui dari Al Quran dan tafsirnya.

Suamiku …
Ajari ku tak lepas dari kalimat “Dzikr” (cara untuk mengingat Allah dengan mencontoh Rasulullah) di pagi dan petang..

Suamiku …
Ingatkan selalu aku untuk membelanjakan uang di jalan
yang diridhoiNya... menebar kebaikan dan jihad dijalan Islam..

Suamiku…
Cemburu adalah fitrah..
Bahkan kuharap kaupun punya rasa
cemburu terhadap aku, tetapi jangan berlebihan (cemburu buta).

Suamiku …
Kuingin kan sikap kesabaran dan
kelembutan dalam menghadapiku jangan kau tunjukkan kekerasan
dan kata kata kasar padaku..
Selalu ingatkan aku jika ada perbuatan yang salah pada diriku…
Karena aku hanyalah wanita sederhana dengan kekurangan dalam diriku..

Suamiku…
Maafkan aku jika telah berbuat salah padamu…
Turunkan emosimu ketika kau hadapi
aku…
Nasehatiku dengan kelembutanmu karena itu akan lebih mengena
bagiku.
Ku yakin kau bisa lakukan itu…
Salam sayang untukmu selalu…

Sebelum Kau Halal Untukku

Ya Allah
aku berdo’a untuk seorang lelaki
yang akan menjadi sebahagian dari hidupku
Seseorang yang sangat mencintai-Mu lebih dari segala sesuatu
Seorang lelaki yang akan meletakkan ku pada posisi kedua di hatinya selain Engkau
Seorang lelaki yang hidup bukan untuk dirinya sendiri tetapi untuk Engkau
Wajah tampan dan daya tarikan tidaklah penting
yang penting adalah sebuah hati yang sungguh mencintai dan dekat dengan Engkau
dan berusaha menjadikan sifat-sifat-Mu ada pada dirinya
dan ia haruslah mengetahui bagi siapa dan untuk apa ia hidup sehingga hidupnya tidaklah sia-sia

Seseorang yang memiliki hati yang bijak, tidak hanya otak yang cerdas
Seorang lelaki yang tidak hanya mencintaiku tapi juga menghormatiku
Seorang lelaki yang tidak hanya memujaku tetapi juga dapat menasihatiku ketika melakukan kesalahan

Seseorang yang mencintaiku bukan kerana kecantikanku tapi kerana hatiku
Seorang lelaki yang dapat menjadi sahabat terbaikku dalam setiap waktu dan situasi
Seorang lelaki yang dapat membuatku merasa sebagai seorang wanita ketika aku disisinya

Ya Allah
aku tidak meminta seseorang yang sempurna namun aku meminta seseorang yang tidak sempurna, sehingga aku dapat membuatnya sempurna di mata-Mu
Seorang lelaki yang mmerlukan sokonganku sebagai peneguhnya
Seorang lelaki yang memerlukan do’aku untuk kehidupannya
Seseorang lelaki yang memerlukan senyumku untuk mengatasi kesedihannya
Seseorang yang memerlukan diriku untuk membuat hidupnya menjadi sempurna

Ya Allah
aku juga meminta
Jadikanlah aku menjadi wanita yang dapat membuatnya bangga
Berikan aku hati yang sungguh mencintai-Mu sehingga aku dapat mencintainya dengan sekadar cintaku
Berikan aku sifat lembut sehingga kecantikanku datang dari-Mu
Berikan aku tangan sehingga aku selalu mampu berdo’a untuknya
Berikan aku penglihatan sehingga aku dapat melihat banyak hal baik dan bukan hal buruk dalam dirinya

Berikanlah aku lisan yang penuh dengan kata-kata bijaksana, mampu memberikan semangat serta menyokongnya setiap saat dan tersenyum untuk dirinya setiap pagi
Dan bila mana akhirnya kami akan bertemu, aku berharap kami berdua dapat mengatakan
“Betapa Maha Besarnya Engkau karena telah memberikan kepadaku pasangan yang dapat membuat hidupku menjadi sempurna.”

Aku mengetahui bahawa Engkau ingin kami bertemu pada waktu yang tepat. Dan Engkau akan membuat segala sesuatunya indah pada waktu yang telah Engkau tentukan
Amin Ya Rabbal ‘alamin


 

 

Terima Kasih Ya Rahman Ya Rahim

Alhamdulilllah..terima kasih ya Allah..

terima kasih atas segala nikmat yang kau berikan kepada ku kepada kami...Nikmat yang tak dapat kami hitung..nikmat yang terlalu banyak

Ampunilah kami jika sebelum ini belum cukup kami bersyukur atas apa yang kau berikanmaafkan kami atas kelalaian kami terpesona nya kami kepada dunia yang hanya sebentar cuma..

Iman yang senipis kulit bawang ini bahkan lebih nipis lagi cuba untuk memuhasabah diriuntuk kembali kepada Mu ya Allah..bantulah diri ini ya Muhaimin..ya Rahman..ya Rahim...

Ya Allah..bantulah hamba Mu yang hina dina ini..

Bantulah kami untuk menempuh alam dunia ini..dunia pinjaman yang sementara ini..

Jauhkan kan kami dari perkara yang akan membawa kemurkaan Mu..

Sesungguhnya aku tak berdaya mengharunginya seorang diri tanpa petunjuk Mu..

Kau pimpinlah setiapa langkah ku supaya tak tersasar dari landasan keredhoaan Mu ya Allah....

Ameen....

Alhamdulillah...alhamdulillah...alhamdulillah...thanks Allah...

Aku tahu segalanya hanya pinjaman..

Kerana itu akan ku jaga sebaik mungkin segala apa yang Engkau pinjamkankan kepada ku...

InsyaAllah..

Semoga aku menjadi seorang hamba yang sentiasa bersyukur..

Ya Allah..bantulah diri ini...

KEK KUKUS CHOCLATE LAPIS CREAMCHEESE

250gm cream cheese

60gm gula halus

1biji telur

1 sudu bsr air

1 sudu bsr tepung gandum




cara2...

pukul cream cheese bersama dengan gula sehingga sebati

masukan telur,air&tepung gandum,pukul lg&gaul sebati,biarkan sebentar. 



Bahan2 untuk kek...

1cwn gula halus

2biji telur

1sudu kecil vanilla

sedikit garam

1/2 cwn air didih pns

1/2 cwn susu cair

1/2 cwn minyak msk

1 cwn tepung gandum

3 sudu bsr serbuk koko

1 sudu kecil baking soda

1/2 sudu kecil baking powder

(tepung gandum,serbuk koko,baking soda,baking powder diayak)



cara2...

pukul gula dlm bekas lain dgn telur sehingga kembang

masukkan vanilla ngan garam

madukkan air pns

susu&minyak msk

masukkan tepung gandum,baking powder,baking soda&serbuk koko yg tlh diayak&gaul sebati

biarkan sebentar bahagi 2 bhgn.. 



Untuk kukus: 

pnskan pengukus,balut penutup dgn kain

sapukan minyak diloyang

tuang adunan coklat

tutup loyang dgn aluminium foil kukus selama 15-20 minit

buka aluminium foil&tuang cheese,tutp semula kukus selama 15minit

tuang lg adunan coklat&kukus selama 20minit...

siappp ......

sedapnyaaa....nyummy..teringin sangat..

start jatuh cinta dengan keenakkan kek ni lepas kak ct bagi rasa masa LI kat tnb dulu2 kala..hihi

nahh..dah ada respi..!!! 

nnti aku plak nak try n post gambar yang aku sndiri buat..dan makan berasama orang tersayang..opsss...peaceee.... v(^_^)

insyaAllah...